Cassia & Myrrh
Catholic Wedding Singer & Cantor in Southern California
Kay brings a rare combination of classical and modern training and deep liturgical knowledge to Southern California’s most beautiful Catholic ceremonies. Her voice has graced the altars of parishes across the region, offering couples a musical experience as sacred and memorable as the sacrament itself. Listen while you browse:
A Stunning, Reverent Approach to the Wedding Liturgy
A Catholic wedding is not simply a celebration of two people. It is a sacred liturgy—a solemn act of worship in which the Church bears witness to the sacrament of Matrimony. The music should reflect the beauty, dignity, and prayerfulness of that moment.
For this reason, my approach is rooted in the rich musical tradition of the Catholic Church. Whether singing Gregorian chant, timeless sacred hymns, or carefully chosen liturgical repertoire, my goal is never to draw attention to the performer, but to serve the liturgy with beauty, reverence, and excellence.
Every wedding is thoughtfully prepared in collaboration with the couple, the parish, and any accompanying musicians to ensure that the music is both spiritually meaningful and liturgically appropriate. From the Entrance Procession through the Communion Rite and Marian devotion, each selection is chosen to support the sacred character of the Mass while creating an atmosphere of profound beauty.
Over the years, I have sung and studied sacred music in churches, cathedrals, and concert settings, with a particular love for the Church’s chant tradition. That experience informs every wedding I accept, bringing together musical artistry, careful preparation, and a deep respect for the liturgy itself.
I accept only a limited number of weddings each year, allowing each couple the attention and preparation their wedding deserves.
About Kay
Kay is a singer, composer, and writer whose work is dedicated to beauty, sacred music, and the Catholic tradition. She has spent years studying and performing music that serves both the liturgy and the concert stage, with a particular love for Gregorian chant, sacred polyphony, and the great treasury of Catholic hymnody.
Originally from Saskatoon, Saskatchewan and now based in Los Angeles, Kay has performed internationally and released multiple recordings spanning sacred, classical, folk, and contemporary styles. Her music has been heard by millions of listeners around the world, reflecting a lifelong commitment to artistic excellence and the enduring beauty of the Christian tradition.
In addition to her work as a recording artist and composer, Kay writes extensively on sacred music and Catholic culture through Catholic Kind, helping others discover the history, meaning, and beauty of the Church’s musical heritage.
For weddings, her approach is simple: to offer music that is prayerful, beautiful, and worthy of the sacred liturgy. Every wedding is prepared with care, professionalism, and close attention to the unique character of the Mass, creating an atmosphere that is both deeply reverent and artistically memorable.
You can learn more about all of her work and projects at kayclarity.art
Based in Southern California, Kay is available for a limited number of Catholic weddings throughout Los Angeles, Orange County, and destination locations by invitation.
Why Couples Choose Kay
- A reverent, prayerful approach rooted in the beauty and tradition of the Catholic Church.
- Professional artistry, with years of experience as a singer, composer, and recording artist.
- Careful liturgical preparation in collaboration with your parish, celebrant, and accompanying musicians.
- Timeless repertoire, including Gregorian chant, sacred hymns, psalmody, and classical sacred music.
- Personal attention, accepting only a limited number of weddings each year to ensure every liturgy is thoughtfully prepared.
- Available throughout Southern California, with destination weddings considered by invitation.
Recordings
I invite you to listen to a selection of recordings below and imagine how this music might serve the beauty of your own wedding Mass.
Hear the Music
The recordings above are drawn primarily from Cassia & Myrrh, my ongoing sacred music project dedicated to the beauty of the Catholic musical tradition. Rooted in Gregorian chant, sacred hymnody, and timeless devotional repertoire, these recordings reflect the same reverent approach I bring to every wedding liturgy.
Over the years, Cassia & Myrrh has reached millions of listeners around the world, with recordings heard in homes, churches, monasteries, and places of prayer across dozens of countries. While concert performance and recording are important parts of my work, singing for the sacred liturgy remains one of its greatest privileges. Every wedding receives the same care, preparation, and musical excellence that have shaped this body of work.
Music for the Mass
Every Catholic wedding is unique, but the music should always serve the beauty and dignity of the sacred liturgy. I work closely with each couple, their parish, and any accompanying musicians to select music that is both prayerful and liturgically appropriate.
ENTRANCE PROCESSION
A reverent and joyful beginning to the celebration, whether through Gregorian chant, a traditional hymn, or another approved sacred work.
RESPONSORIAL PSALM
The Psalm is an integral part of the Liturgy of the Word and is sung according to the Church’s tradition.
GOSPEL ACCLAMATION
The Alleluia (or appropriate seasonal acclamation) is sung before the proclamation of the Gospel.
OFFERTORY
Music that accompanies the preparation of the gifts, reflecting the prayerful movement of the liturgy.
COMMUNION
Sacred music that supports prayer during the reception of the Eucharist, drawing from the Church’s rich treasury of chant and hymnody.
MARIAN DEVOTION (OPTIONAL)
For couples who choose to honor the Blessed Virgin Mary, a traditional setting such as Ave Maria may be sung during the presentation of flowers.
RECESSIONAL
A joyful conclusion to the liturgy as family and friends celebrate the newly married couple.
Serving Southern California
Based in Los Angeles, I provide music for Catholic weddings throughout Southern California, including:
- Los Angeles
- Orange County
- Santa Barbara
- San Diego
- Palm Springs
I also welcome occasional destination weddings throughout California and beyond, subject to availability.
Because I accept only a limited number of weddings each year, I encourage couples to inquire as early as possible, particularly for spring and fall wedding dates.
Frequently Asked Questions
Do you sing for both Catholic wedding ceremonies and Nuptial Masses?
Yes. I provide music for both Catholic wedding ceremonies celebrated outside of Mass and full Nuptial Masses, always in accordance with the liturgical guidelines of your parish.
What areas do you serve?
I am based in Los Angeles and regularly serve couples throughout Southern California, including Los Angeles, Orange County, Santa Barbara, San Diego, and Palm Springs. Destination weddings are also considered by invitation.
Do you sing in Latin?
Yes. I regularly sing both Latin and English sacred music, including Gregorian chant, traditional hymns, and other liturgical repertoire.
Can you sing Ave Maria?
Yes. Ave Maria is one of the most requested pieces for Catholic weddings and is especially fitting during a Marian devotion or another appropriate moment within the liturgy, subject to your parish’s guidelines. I have several beautiful options.
Can I hire you if my wedding is outside Southern California?
Yes. While I am based in Los Angeles and primarily serve couples throughout Southern California, I also accept a limited number of destination weddings elsewhere in California, throughout the United States, and internationally, subject to availability.
If you are planning a destination wedding, please include your wedding date, location, parish, and any details about the liturgy when you inquire. I’d be happy to discuss whether I may be a good fit for your celebration.
Will you work with our parish music director or organist?
Certainly. I am happy to collaborate with your parish musicians, organist, pianist, choir, or instrumentalists to ensure a seamless and prayerful celebration.
Can you recommend music for each part of the Mass?
Yes. I can assist in selecting music for the Entrance Procession, Responsorial Psalm, Gospel Acclamation, Offertory, Communion, Marian devotion, and Recessional, always respecting the liturgical norms of your parish.
Do you travel for weddings?
Yes. In addition to serving Southern California, I am available occasionally for destination weddings throughout California and beyond, subject to availability and travel arrangements.
Do you sing Gregorian chant?
Yes. Gregorian chant is one of my specialties and remains one of the Church’s most beautiful musical traditions. It can be incorporated into many parts of the wedding liturgy, depending on your parish and celebrant.
How far in advance should we book?
Because I accept only a limited number of weddings each year, I recommend inquiring as early as possible, particularly for spring and fall wedding dates.
What styles of music do you offer?
My repertoire centers on the Catholic sacred tradition, including Gregorian chant, sacred hymns, classical sacred music, Responsorial Psalms, and other liturgically appropriate works. My focus is always on serving the beauty and reverence of the wedding liturgy.
Do you perform music outside the liturgy?
Yes. Prelude music before the liturgy and other appropriate sacred selections may be arranged depending on your parish, timeline, and musical needs.
What does it cost to hire a Catholic wedding cantor?
Every wedding is unique, and fees vary depending on the location, musical requirements, rehearsal needs, and any additional services requested. Rather than offering standard packages, I prepare a proposal based on the specific needs of each wedding.
I accept only a limited number of weddings each year, allowing each liturgy the time, preparation, and personal attention it deserves. Please feel free to inquire with your wedding date and location, and I’ll be happy to provide additional information.
How do we begin the booking process?
Simply use the inquiry form below to share your wedding date, parish, and location. I’ll be happy to discuss availability, answer any questions, and help you begin planning the music for your wedding liturgy.
Inquire About Your Wedding
I work with a small number of couples each year and take great care in ensuring each liturgy is beautifully prepared. Each inquiry is personally reviewed — I’d be honored to learn more about your wedding. Please share a few details below, and I’ll be in touch within a few days to discuss your wedding and whether we may be a good fit.
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